8 Stages of Comfortable in a Relationship

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 Relationships tend to follow a continuum of comfortableness. One day you're doing the fake reach for the check after dinner, and the next you're playing rock, paper, scissors to choose who will make the trip to Chipotle for lunch. Clearly there are other signs that the two of you are getting super close, like going on vacations together and meeting his family, for example. But these are a few funny-because-they're-true signs that you've reached "that point" in your bond. And while every couple's relationship is different, we think these stages are a pretty good way to gauge the level of closeness you've reached—bodily functions and all. Sending a text without re-reading it six times. Crafting the perfect sentence that is witty, flirty, and has just the right combo of emojis was exhausting. Now you don't even care if auto-correct changes "sec" to "sex". Ordering what you actually want to eat on a date. Do you look classy eating a burger? Nope. Do you care? Absolutely not. In fact, he enjoys your face in all its ketchup and mustard covered glory. And in return, you let him order that milkshake—even though you know what dairy does to his stomach. Love ain't always pretty. He knows about your obsession with Ryan Gosling and you know he might leave you for Hermione Granger, should the opportunity arise. Now if only we could get those two to star in a romantic comedy together. That might be the best porn for couples ever created. Not caring if they see you without makeup on. He told you once that he thinks you look beautiful with no makeup on, and you definitely do, so you skip the war paint from time to time. You also skip shaving your legs every single time you see him, but that's mostly for yourself. Sleeping at their place and, like, actually sleeping. Adult slumber parties are fun. But what's even more fun is being fine with catching up on some much-needed, drool-inducing sleep. This is the point where you don't have to have sex every time one of you stays the night. Sometimes snuggling is just as good (if not better). Having sex with the lights on. You're comfortable enough with each other to realize that baring it all in broad daylight is really hot. Not to mention you don't need any liquid encouragement to drop your inhibitions around them—not even morning breath can slow you down. Not holding back your ugly cry. Whether you're breaking down about your post-wedding season bank account or watching The Fault in Our Stars with him, you're not afraid of unleashing the epic cry-face. More importantly, he's not as afraid of seeing it anymore. Keeping tampons at his place while he keeps his superhero boxers at your place. The jig is up. He knows you get your period and you know he still has a health  

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I have been blogging for over 2 years. My goal with blogging was so that I could bring the stories that matter, the stories that make a difference and the stories that put spotlight on achievement and success.
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